Life and love are full of infinite possibilities, and the world is full of wonderful people. Love is wonderful, but not special. Awesome sex is awesome, but not necessarily rare.
Never be afraid to fall in love. Love freely, love wholeheartedly, and don’t concern yourself with what the future may or may not hold. People will come and go in your life for as long as you live; if you learn be unafraid of loss you will find the quality of your relationships and overall happiness will dramatically improve.
That feeling of nervousness, the sleepless nights wondering if she likes you or not. The rethinking and reanalyzing of daily events, that knot in your stomach when you see her smiling and walking with another guy, that fake surprise face when you “run into her” after seeing her walk with that other guy. The moment you just pull her in and tell how crazy you are about her, the first kiss, the second kiss, the first time seeing her naked and you can’t help but think of how perfect she is.
The night where you start thinking about your life with her, how you will act when meeting her parents, how happy you are with the thought of waking up with her every day. The dreams of having a house and x number of kids with her being the sweet caring mother, and you the hardworking father.
Then the first fight, then the second fight, then she just stops calling….
You try to contact her, no response, you e-mail her, no response, you leave 1-2 messages hoping she’ll call you, trying your best not to over-do it and look desperate. You talk to your friends and they tell you “there are plenty of other women out there”.
Then you meet someone new Then you break down and cry
Happy Mother’s Day.
I’m not joking when I say that I cry when I hear this song. There are few songs that make me feel this way, and this is one of them. :C